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Sunday, February 12, 2012

valentine dilemma

My pre-valentine post. Almost forgot  that tomorrow is Heart's Day. Maybe due to lack of sleep and stress. I don't  know. Not so much of  excitement [don't think I'm date-less this valentine] but I already know that surely I will have something from my "valentino". Every year, I always get something from my hubby. The funny thing, hubby is not good in surprising me because  he would prefer to ask me what I want. Of course at first, I would  say,"ikaw  gud bahala, maski unsa.." but later, I would tell him exactly what I want. The rationale behind; He prefer to  give what I want rather what he wants because he wants to  make sure I am happy on what I  am getting.VIOLA! and that makes me a spoiled brat---or rather, a spoiled wife! YES!  I  am super spoiled by my husband. Whatever I want as long as he can give it, then I have it. Promise, very spoiled! Somehow I like  it [walang plastikan-]but somehow maybe a dilemma on his side what if he can't give what I want.

So far,I'm learning to adjust if he can't give all I want. What is important is that I have him when I need him. That matters most. Not all material things but to have him when I needed him the most, means a lot compare to anything else.

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Anyway, my post doesn't speaks of his dilemma on what to give to me this valentines. It's gonna be my dilemma. Dilemma on what can I give to him this heart's day.Got no time to  flash the cam to show my face in a  dilemma post that is why I borrowed a  photo from the link posted below the picture. [by the way, putting the link on where  I get pictures  for the blog was a suggestion to avoid plagiarism.] Hubby ever fails to give and I wanna give something in return. You may say it's not necessary anymore but also I wanna express and made him feel  that I think of him for this valentines day. Honestly, who doesn't want to feel  special? Human nature,we feel so  special when someone gives a  gift or a token.It feels good when we  know someone is thinking of us. Who doesn't want chocolates at all? Roses? cards or maybe a huggable  bear? Sweet gestures creates good feeling. You know, men, be thankful  it's so easy to purchase  something for us girls.You can almost look everywhere and easily pick up things to express how you feel for  us women. But I  maybe I'm one of those women out there having a valentine dilemma.- what to give to our men? Tomorrow will be hearts day and  honestly, I still don't have anything to  give to the man who owns my heart. I'm sure, I'll have a last minute shopping. This time, I wanna make him special--as always. But with this special day,I hope I can grab the right gift that he will surely like. Not roses,  he may say "mura  man ug  patay",  chocolates, maybe but he's not really a sweets fanatic, cards-maybe but I want something he can keep[which I know he's not good on it]. 

Giving gifts to men are always girls dilemma. But I hope that whatever item I may choose as  a gift, I just pray, he will love it. Please  don't think that my hubby is materialistic  or a price-tag. It's my choice to give something special for him that he will   surely like just like what he makes sure when he gives me something.
By the way, my post also serves as a way if you can help me what I can give to him for this heart season. Feel free to  leave your suggestions on the comment box below.Maybe you idea will be a big help to me.

To end my pre-valentine dilemma post, let me leave you this sweet bible verses about love which I was amazed that there are also cheesy lines  in the bible.. take it  from the book  of Song of Solomon..

"Let him  kiss me with the kisses of his mouth; for thy love is better than wine.."
Song of Solomon 1:2



3 comments:

  1. Whatever it is yan.. he will love it for sure.. =))

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  3. To God be the glory and praise!

    It's a heart warming to see christian blogging out their thoughts here.

    Feel free to add me up at: http://wordbliss-chronicle.blogspot.com/

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